Just For You

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Financial difficulties

Dear Lord,In this time of uncertainty,Be my rock in a world built on sand;Be my oasis of grace and peace in a world of tension and turmoil;Help me to carry my cross gracefully, as you did in Your Passion;Help me to follow Your beam of light in the midst of this darkness;Help me to see Your will in all thingsAnd show others Your comfort and strength.Keep me calm when tempers flare up;Keep me sane in a crazy world;Keep me focused on the houses in Heavenrather than the houses of cards collapsing around me;Keep my eyes focused on the prize of Heavenand not lose hope in You in this world or in the world to come;Make me compassionate in dealing with others;Let me see my travails as carrying my cross and sharing in Your Passion, for the love of You and for the salvation of souls, including mine.And may all my difficulties be ultimately for my good and Your glory. Amen.Our Lord challenged us in the Gospels not to worry about what we need in terms of the necessities of life such as food and clothing, but rather to “seek first the kingdom of God….and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matt 6:33). He also advised us to not to worry about tomorrow, as it would take care of itself (Matt 6:34).That seems a lot easier said than done these days, doesn’t it? So many of today’s anxieties center around two words: money and jobs! In our Prayer Requests section we get many notes from people wondering how they’re going to find a job or pay their bills or take care of their loved ones!What can we do? Turn to God in prayer, again and again. Persevere in the knowledge He loves us and wants to use our trials to strengthen us emotionally and spiritually if we let him. Give Him all your anxieties and ask for His graces for yourself and your loved ones.And, as tough as this may sound, don’t give into despair! Try to bear with your financial difficulties with equanimity saying to God, in effect, “Thy will be done.” Our pains and suffering need not be wasted or meaningless if we offer them up to our Lord for our good and for our salvation.We can all live with less of everything, everything that is except for love. This is a time to show more compassion towards others, whenever possible, and not to give in to feelings of bitterness about being wronged.Also it is important not let the tension we may naturally feel about how we’re going to provide for our loved ones keep us from showing them our love.And for those of us who never did anything shady but are still losing jobs and pensions and homes because of the misdeeds of others in this economy, we need to remember Our Lord. After all did he deserve the brutal punishment inflicted upon Him in His Passion, he who was without sin? Of course not, but he bore it anyway for our sakes!As we read in the book of Isaiah “he was wounded for our iniquities, he was bruised for our sins” (Is 53:5). Thinking about this can help keep us from nursing grudges over life’s unfairness.This doesn’t mean of course, that we should be Pollyannas about these times of course! The pain and anxieties many of us are feeling about our financial difficulties are quite real. And not quite knowing where the light is at the end of the tunnel, or where we even are in this tunnel, doesn’t help!Yet God is with us, especially in the midst of our sufferings, and wants to help us advance in holiness during these times if we are willing to let him do so!This is a time for finding out what is really important in our lives and what really counts. And it’s not the false sense of security and superiority we get from keeping up with the Joneses! Do we really need to measure our self-worth by the size of our bank accounts, or our houses?Didn’t Christ tell us instead not to store up treasures here on earth which can decay or be stolen, but rather, through living lives of holiness and true Gospel charity, to store them up in Heaven “where neither rust nor moth consumes, nor thieves break in and steal” (Matt 6:20)?Speaking of houses, while we worry about making a living, remember what our Lord told His apostles after the Last Supper: “Let not your heart be troubled… In my Father's house there are many mansions. If not, I would have told you: because I go to prepare a place for you” (John 14:1-2).Perhaps you’ve read of those who have had near-death experiences or who have actually died and come back to life, describing peace and magnificent surroundings beyond anyone’s imagination here.Granted, these are anecdotal but reflect also on the words of St. Paul who, himself once experienced heaven during his lifetime (2 Cor 12:2) and wrote elsewhere that “eye has not seen nor ear heard...what things God has prepared for those who love Him” (1 Cor 2:9).Time and time again in scripture we read of the importance of keeping our worship focused on the Creator rather than the created, not to get too attached to the things of this world. In so doing we may better show genuine love and caring for each other.When we act in this manner, and bear with our financial difficulties gracefully, turning them over to God, we can better assure that, whatever our financial situation might be now we have great hope that God will help turn things around for us, if not in this life, than in the Eternal one to come in heaven!We hope these reflections, like these prayers can provide you with some comfort and strength. And remember also that everything passes away in this life, both the good and the bad, but God, his place for us, and His love last forever! As our Lord said to His disciples after His resurrection “I am with you always” (Matt 28:20).

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Be grateful

Gratitude
A whole nation can change if we can start to understand what it means..
Gratitude does not want
Gratitude does not wish
Gratitude always gives
Gratitude always helps
Gratitude is never lazy
Gratitude does not lie, cheat or steal
Gratitude does not kill or rape

To be grateful for what you have in life is a self-sacrifice for being less than the person next to you, and willing to help those in need that have less than you.

Being grateful doesnt mean you cant want those perfect goals for prosperity and wealth, it only teaches us to help those in need.

Be grateful for what you have, you might meet someone who cherishes your "normal life".

Jesus loves the grateful giving heart

Colossians 3:15-20 ESV / 159 helpful votes

And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

Marc du Toit

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

I give up

Ever said those three words?..."I give up"?

I mean its easy, no more worries and you can just relax...but for how long,before you start to feel the sinking feeling of regret. The hole of regret gets deeper and deeper the more you run from your problems and insecurities. It is easy to give up on something (job/marriage/goal). Nobody said it is going to be easy but nobody also said its going to be difficult. Life is a constant battle of ups & downs, today you might feel amazingly happy ,yet tomorow you might go down from an emotional blow. You are not measured by how good or how bad you do in life, but how good or bad you empower yourself in those situations.You are capable of anything , you are the master of your thoughts and you can overcome ANYTHING!!

Sometimes , like today , it is not easy for me to write inspirational messages, but i commit and i endure, because there is a bigger purpose to all of this than me. Life is not always about you, Look up Get up but never.....ever Give up.

Scripture: Isaiah 40:29
New Living Translation

He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless.

Marc du Toit
Motivational Guru & Life Coach

Thursday, March 13, 2014

That missing feeling...

Ever thought there was something missing in your life, but you can't you really put your finger on it?
It's like you wake up in the morning, and you know, you know because you know. You can't explain it, it is like something inside you, in your very existence, part of your every living cell.

Not being able to fully understand it , or come to grips with it, you ignore it and hide it from yourself. You know that if you talk to someone they would think you have gone completely mental....

And it is so strong, almost like you understand this super natural presence among you, or inside you...
What if I could share this secret with you, or more clearly , this truth with you?
Would you be interested to find out?
What you have been missing, or suppressing?

And this is not a sales pitch to buy my, one-of-a-kind, unique book of thoughts....I'm talking about clicking on a link and reading a few words.
But I want you to think before clicking, I want you to meditate on that feeling you know....that weird presence, I want you to fully understand the truth that awaits you. I know 100% that if you read this , your life will change..
LETS GO!!!

http://thisisthetruthnow.blogspot.com/2014/03/truth.html

Friday, March 7, 2014

Be in controle of your mind

The true potential of yourself is in your mind and how you must learn to controle it.

What you can believe ,you ultimately will achieve and receive.Nobody great ever thought that they would succeed by thinking negative, discouraging thoughts.

The moment you open your eyes each morning and your are in a concious state of mind, you need to battle and overpower your own mind.You believe yourself more than anyone else, even more than me..
Fight, controle and overpower your negative lazy old self.

But rest each night, and rest good, because when that alarm clock strikes 5:30 am, you got to be ready and willing to fight.

Nothing is to great for you to conquer, not even your own mind.

Think
Voice
Act

Scripture:
Proverbs 23:7
King James Version (KJV)

7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:

Marc du Toit

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Put in the effort

You want success but you want it on a plate, wake up!!

Nobody is going to hand you a business or a job with great income, you need to work for it....constantly

Wake up early (5am)
Go to bed late (11pm)
Renew your mind
Renew your strategies
Think outside the box

You have to think successful before you can become successful, striving for it in every aspect of your life.

Work -put in the time
Family -put in the effort
Friends -choose them wisely
Relationships -Give what you want...
Health -don't fool yourself

How can you want success or start a great empire if you can't even clean your room.Get back to basics, learn to walk before you want to run.

Proverbs 16:3 "Entrust your efforts to the LORD, and your plans will succeed"

Marc du Toit

Sunday, March 2, 2014

Failure or Success

"Want a piece of advice?
"Get over it! "(Ps.Boshoff)

Whatever failures or setbacks you've had in your life :

Heartbreak
Death/loss
Injuries
Mistreated
Rejected
Left behind or treated unfairly

You need to let go,life will leave you behind!!!
Somebody somewhere on this planet has been through roughly the same as you, 
you cannot let your emotions pre-destine your life.You can't change yesterday but you can allow it to change you...?

Look up,
Get up but never give up!
So many people out there today keep grudges or hold things against people for years even decades,father & sons
mothers & daughters ,when best friends turn to enemies.You need to let go,forgive
forget...for life.

Life is like climbing "monkey bars" , in order for you to move forward you need to let go first....

Scripture
Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Marc du Toit
Todays message was inspired by a man with great values,vision & wisdom.